Even if you've been happily single every other day of the year — when Valentine's Day comes around, it can be a glaring reminder of all of the things you don't have. While your friends and loved ones cuddle up with their significant others — it can feel isolating to watch Love Jones for the umpteenth time by yourself while snacking on the take out the delivery guy brought you.
Even if you have a fantastic group of girlfriends who go all out for Galentine's Day celebrations — it's not quite the same feeling of being booed up. Being alone and certainly being brokenhearted can nag at you no matter how unbothered, strong, or above it all you feel. If you adore strong relationships and hope to have a fulfilling love life at some point, Valentine's Day is a reminder that you haven't quite made it there.
Therefore, I think the best thing to do on Valentine's Day is to treat and cater to yourself. Romance movies and take out are great — but you're worth going the extra mile for yourself. It might feel silly to order your favorite plant or flower and grab your favorite snack after work, but if it puts a smile on your face, then why not go for it?
Throughout the year, women tend to put everyone and everything above themselves. Whether it's work, children, friendships, and certainly in romantic partnerships, we often come last to ourselves. For Valentine's Day 2020, we aren't doing that.
Now is the time to pull out or purchase that outfit that makes you feel your best (whether it is sexy or just cozy and comfy). We know you have that bath bomb and lotion that you've been storing for an extra special day — now is the time to use it. Delivery services are great, but if you've been dying to try out a restaurant, go for it. Restaurant bars typically don't need reservations, and it's a great way to meet new people.
Still, when you do get back to the comfort of your own home, you can't forget about self-pleasure and self-love. To top off your epic Valentine's Day, Tracy's Dog, the creators of the most adored G-Spot vibrator for women, (trust me it’s bomb, I reviewed it myself) have created the Tracy's Dog Self-Care Guide for Broken Hearts and Singles on V-Day "Hello Me, Goodbye Cupid" Self-Care Guide.
To say that it's epic is an understatement. So whether you're doing good on your own or you're trying to get over some hot mess of a person, Tracy's Dog self-care guide + a self-love package to win are just what you need to push through V-Day.
Tracy's Dog Self-Care Guide for Broken Hearts and Singles on V-Day
1. Plug self intimacy by listening to ASMR Erotica
Nothing will put you in a better mood and make you flirt with your own intimacy than the sounds of ASMR, from scratching surfaces, finger tapping to explicit erotic whispering. Many people are using ASMR to relax, fall asleep to, and even tap into the undiscovered territory of self-pleasuring to these sounds.
The advantages of ASMR on getting you in the mood, as opposed to traditional porn is the freedom of imagination and the flexibility it gives you, by not having your eyes locked on the screen.
Check this hidden gem of the internet, or this Spotify for audio Erotica.
Couple with it a Tracy’s Dog Vibrator, for a next level play, and watch this combo with ASMR send you into another dimension.
2. The Subtle Matter of Living the Unf*ckwithable Life You Deserve
Get into reading this badass book, coming out on February 11th, by the irreverent Ash Ambirge - “The M!ddle F!ng#r Pr*ject”. And how convenient for it to come exactly when you need it.
This “fresh, funny, and fearless, point-by-point primer on how to get unstuck, slay imposter syndrome, trust in your own worth and ability, and become a strong, capable, wonderful, weird, brilliant, ballsy, unfuckwithable YOU” takes your self-care to another level. And no broken heart can resist this much badassery and fun.
3. The immoral Ice-Cream
Ok, stop that diet for a minute. And just this once, dig into an ice cream with the voracious appetite of a Hummingbird, that has to refuel every ten minutes, because it uses an incredible amount of energy. And so are you. Coming back to yourself, healing and realizing that you’re worth every drop of self-care takes energy, dahhh-rling. Vegan, sugar-free, healthy options are available galore, so you won’t even have to feel guilty for going this route.
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Tracy’s Dog is giving away a Self-care Duo: our insanely popular vibrator, that brought tears of laughter to half of the Twitter population, is the #1 wished for item in sexual wellness on Amazon and made 1 million girls and women worldwide finally close the pleasure gap. And the second pair of this duo is the book of the irreverent Ash Ambirge, “The Middle Finger Project”.
To enter the GIVEAWAY, or nominate someone who needs it, follow and tag us on Instagram @ilovetracysdog. We're here to make this V-Day unforgettable for you!